Mediation is a common litigation alternative during divorce. Spouses sit down to discuss their disagreements with a professional. They work toward a compromise that they both agree is appropriate.
Mediation can be beneficial for people in many different circumstances, such as those who feel strongly about achieving certain outcomes. Those with minor children may also want to consider mediation more carefully than those who do not have custody issues to address.
After all, mediation can help shield children from several of the most damaging aspects of divorce.
Helps reduce conflict
Disputes between parents can become very stressful for their children during a divorce. When they hear their parents fighting in the next room or arguing over the phone, the children may feel anxious or frightened.
Higher levels of conflict have a strong association with worse mental health outcomes for children after a divorce. The focus on cooperation during mediation can help parents improve their dynamic and limit how many arguments the children witness.
Takes the pressure off of kids
Particularly when children reach a certain level of maturity, they may worry about the need to testify or take sides during divorce proceedings. If parents cannot agree on custody matters, the children may have to express their personal wishes, which can put them in a very difficult position.
When parents successfully mediate, they resolve all of their divorce matters in a private setting without the input of outside parties. The children don’t have to think about their preferences or worry about damaging their relationship with one of their parents by participating in custody proceedings.
Looking at mediation and other cooperative approaches to divorce can be especially beneficial for those with young children. Efforts to limit conflict can ultimately be beneficial for the entire family.